Tabuu Wrap-up: Variety is what makes life exciting. Why not apply it to blow jobs?

It’s almost impossible to find a man who doesn’t enjoy oral sex. In fact, most men complain about not getting blow jobs often enough. If you’re new to the art of oral sex or you want to learn some new moves, you’re in the right place. When you make an effort and have fun, amazing things can happen! So, if you want to give spectacular blow jobs, follow these 8 easy steps!

1. Say It Like You Mean It

If oral sex is the main course, you need to understand you’re in control of the situation, so you must determine how it’s going to end. Will your partner be coming on your chest, in your mouth, or elsewhere? Whatever you want, make sure you let your partner know. You can talk about this before you get down to business. Or better yet, use dirty talk to get your message across. Dirty talk is not just about getting in the mood, it’s also a great way to clear up any doubts and communicate what you want. Plus, it’s super sexy when it’s done right! Check out our article on aural sex for more tips.

2. Do You Swallow or Nah?

Some men don’t care whether you swallow or not, but there are others who think it’s a major turn-on. That’s why it’s a good idea to ask your partner how he feels about that so you can decide whether you want to swallow or not. It’s definitely not a decision you want to make at the very last second.

If you’ve never swallowed before, keep in mind that the amount of semen men ejaculate is, on average, equal to a teaspoon. Another thing to keep in mind is sperm has a different taste depending on the man. If you don’t like the texture or taste of it, swallowing might not be for you. And that’s okay! There are other sexy things you can do to finish off a blow job like a boss.

3. Choose Your Position

When it comes to giving a spectacular blow job, there are many positions that will make it easier. It’s up to you whether you choose a standing, lying down or sitting position, just make sure you’re comfortable enough to stimulate the underside of the penis’ head with your tongue because that’s the hotspot.

A great position for both partners to give each other oral sex would be the 69 position. The drawback of this position is that the tongue would be on the wrong side of the penis, so you wouldn’t be able to reach the hotspot we mentioned above.

If you want your man to have more control, you can allow him to be on top and thurst his penis into your mouth. But if this kind of position doesn’t appeal to you, you can try others. What matters is that you’re as much into it as he is, not to mention you’re comfortable enough to use your mouth freely and provide as much pleasure as possible.

4. Begin Slowly

Giving a truly spectacular blow job is actually a holistic process. Men usually think they only care about having their penis stimulated, but the truth is that anticipation makes a great difference between an okay blow job and an amazing one.

To build anticipation, you want to begin slowly. Massage his thighs, caress his penis through his clothes, etc., get creative here! What you don’t want to do is jump right into the blow job. Make him super hard first, and then, slowly get into it.

5. Pay Attention to the Balls

Stimulating the testicles during oral sex is really important because it sets the stage for what’s to come. If you want to hear him moan, try moves like these:

  • Grab his ball sac using your thumb and forefinger where the sac meets the shaft and lightly pull down.
  • Lick the balls following a W pattern, it will make him go nuts. No pun intended.
  • Suck one testicle at a time by putting it in your mouth.
  • Gently roll the balls around in your hand.

I recommend you do this throughout the blow job and try to combine different types of stimulation. For example, if you’re licking or sucking his penis, mix in a little testicle action as well. He’ll love it!

6. Use Your Hands Too

Just because it’s oral sex doesn’t mean using your hands is off-limits. Quite the contrary! Using your hands will allow you to provide additional stimulation, not to mention it will make things more comfortable for your mouth. Plus, using your hands will make up for what your mouth can’t cover. Here are some ideas for you:

  • Form a ring with your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft and move it up and down as your mouth is focused on the top of the penis.
  • Use your finger to massage his perineum, which is the space between the anus and the ball sac.
  • Once things are hot enough, slightly pinch his nipples.
  • Or make him suck on your fingers by putting them in his mouth.
  • Give him a quick handjob if your mouth needs to take a break until you’re ready to jump into action.
  • Surround his shaft with your hand and go up and down with a twisting motion as you work your magic with your mouth at the top.
  • Stimulate his balls with your hands as explained above!

If you plan on using your hands, it will make it better if you use lubrication! You can treat yourself with a nice flavored lube or you can use your own saliva, but keep in mind it will dry faster and your mouth will be busy. Not to mention it can get messy. Using lube is a better idea, but if your man is turned on by watching you spit into his penis and you don’t mind getting messy, then go right ahead!

7. Put Your Tongue to Work

Tongue work during oral sex is what separates the true professionals from the rest of the pack. If you don’t believe using your tongue makes a huge difference, give these techniques a try and see how your man reacts!

  • Use your tongue to massage the small bump under the tip of the penis.
  • If he’s uncircumcised, place your tongue inside his foreskin and draw circles on the tip of his penis.
  • If he’s circumcised, simply draw circles on the tip of his penis with his tongue. It will have the same effect!
  • Use the tip of your tongue to run along the seam on the back of the penis. That spot is super sensitive, so you’ll surprise him.
  • Lick the small slit of the penis where ejaculation comes out and hear him moan.
  • Lick the tip and the shaft of the penis as if it was an ice cream cone.

8. Mix Things Up

If you stick to one movement or one technique for the entirety of the blow job session, he’s not going to stay hard for very long. Variety is what makes things interesting, and blow jobs are not the exception. You want to have fun with it and mix things up as you go!

Switch up the speed and pressure, vary between licking, rubbing, sucking, and stimulate more than just the penis. Change things up constantly and pay attention to his body language so you can do more of what he likes. Here are a few tricks to keep things exciting:

  • Blow on his penis and do it lightly. The cool breeze will feel amazing!
  • Look him in the eyes as you change technique or position. Eye contact is important, so give him a sexy, intense look every now and then.
  • Move your head to the side and carefully nibble on the shaft of his penis with your teeth. Gentle!
  • When you have his penis in your mouth, suck and seal your lips around his penis before you pull slightly upward.
  • As his penis is in your mouth, make humming noises. The vibrations will feel incredible. Just make sure you don’t pick a song that’s too distracting or weird. I recommend you stick to random humming sounds.
  • Pull down his foreskin to make it tighter and stimulate his penis. It will be a lot more sensitive!
  • Kiss his penis to give your mouth a break!
  • Kiss the underside of his penis, right where the shaft connects with the balls. That’s a very sensitive spot that’s often overlooked.

These are only a few ideas, but don’t limit yourself! Like I said before, you must have fun with it and don’t be afraid to explore and play with his penis however you see fit. The more adventurous you are, the better it will feel for him. Take advantage of your control and blow his mind!

Giving spectacular oral sex comes down to how much fun you’re willing to have and how far you’re willing to go when it comes to exploring your partner’s body and sexual hotspots. Trying new things is key here because you never know what’s going to work.

Sure, you can rely on winner combinations you already know works, but don’t become predictable. The point of oral sex is to explore pleasure in a different way, so try to make it unique every single time. The more fun you have with it, the happier he will be and the more spectacular will the blow job be!

 

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