Tabuu Wrap-up: A look at your hands can make your woman writhe with desire and anticipation. Do you want to know how? Here are a few tips to help you get there!
Hands are extremely attractive. When you stop to really look at them and appreciate them, they can tell you a lot about a person. You’ll be amazed to know how many women agree with this sentiment. It turns out they assess men’s hands and they consider them an important part of their physical appeal.
In fact, you can learn a lot about a man by looking at his hands. Not to mention it’s a nice little sexual mind game to imagine what those hands can do. What I’m trying to tell you here is that women pay attention to your hands. This means how well you take care of them speaks volumes to us.
They’re extremely hot sexual tools, so it’s not only important to take care of them, but it’s also important to show us exactly how you can put them to good use. If you’ve never considered how important your hands are in the bedroom, now’s the time to do it. Do you want your woman to look at your hands and writhe with anticipation? Here are a few tips and tricks to help you stroke and rub her the right way to make a lasting impression!
1. Play With Her Thighs
It doesn’t matter how you trigger an orgasm, it happens the same way: it’s a series of uncontrollable muscular contractions. Those muscles run all the way into her thighs, which means the thighs are an erogenous zone you should pay attention to. Touching her thighs will feel amazing, not to mention it’s something extremely intimate. Think about it. Only you have access to her thighs and they’re very sensitive, so they will be highly aware of your touch.
This is why you should play with her thighs whenever you have a chance. Slide your fingers up her thighs sensually or play a little rough if that’s what she’s into. To do that, give her some slaps or grab her thighs with confidence and force as you tell her how sexy she is, whatever works best for her. This will get her blood flowing in all the right places!
2. Touch Her Full Frontal
If you really want to build anticipation in a really easy way, simply hold the palm of your hand over her vagina. Cover her entire vulva with your warm hand and simply hold it. That’s all you need to do. Simply hold it there a little bit longer than necessary and soon she’ll be asking for more.
3. Begin Stroking Her the Right Way
At this point, she’ll be wishing for some friction. What you want to do is use a little lube, because it will make things ten times better. Go for a water-based lube or a silicone-based lube depending on the kind of experience you want to have. It’s a good idea to give each of them a try. Lube will not only provide more sensation and take things to the next level, but it will also keep her skin protected from friction burns, which can occur even if you have a light touch during friction play.
Once your fingers are wet, start running them up and down from her perineum to her clip. Then, dip a finger or two inside her vagina from time to time. This is meant to tease her as you give her a little bit of what she wants. Allow your middle finger to lead while you graze her clit with your thumb. Pay attention to her body language and be on the lookout for signs of happiness. When you know what she likes, keep doing it and take it up a notch!
4. Pay Attention to the Clitoris
I don’t mean to tell you how you should stimulate her clitoris. What I can do is provide some inspiration and a couple of great ideas you can try. First of all, the clit is not a pearl, a button, or a pea as we’re led to believe. It looks like a shaft, it’s one inch long, and it’s covered by a small hood made of skin. It’s located exactly where the labia meets the pubic mound.
The clitoris contains thousands of nerve endings, which go really deep and run through the entire body. When you stimulate her clit, you’re essentially stimulating many different erogenous zones at once. She will feel it all over her body!
Now, keep in mind that not all women react the same way. Some women have clitorises that are way too sensitive to be touched, while other women will really enjoy powerful pressure and hard play. Some will prefer indirect clitoral stimulation. To figure out what your woman enjoys the most, you’ll want to either ask her or explore different possibilities. Either way, pay attention to her responses and adjust accordingly!
5. Borrow Some of Her Moves
Perhaps the easiest way to understand what she likes is to ask her to touch herself in front of you. If she’s into it, watch the way she touches herself. Through her touch, she will communicate everything she wants you to do to her. She may also tell you what she wants directly. She will also speak with her body, so make sure you pay attention to the way she moves, how her body reacts to her own techniques, and learn from that. If she’s giving you a front-row seat, make the most of it!
6. Take Her Right to the Edge
If your goal is to make her hot, then the only way to do that is to experiment. If you want to make her come, stick to consistent, rhythmic movements. The point is to find the right motion, the right rhythm to bring her to the edge of orgasm. When you find that perfect balance and you can feel her going over the edge, keep her there. Don’t rush through anything, don’t hold back. When you find something that really works for her, the last thing you want to do is stop or move on to something different without paying attention to her reaction.
Make Your Hands Your Best Sexual Tool
It doesn’t matter what gender or sexual orientation defines you, there are no sexual tools more useful and powerful than your hands. Especially not when you learn how to use them for your partner’s pleasure. Your fingertips are soft, your fingers are firm, your palms are warm, and all the muscles make your hands completely free to move in any way you want. When you learn new skills to use them and you adjust your technique to what your partner enjoys the most, you’ll bring your sex life to a whole other level!