Tabuu Wrap-up: Dildos are the most basic form of sex toy you’ll find, but that’s what makes them so great! You just need to learn how to use them.

We’ve written a ton about the different kinds of sex toys and why you should try them out. We’ve also written a lot about dildos and how great they are, but we haven’t written about how to use them.

Dildos are very basic, but when it comes down to using them, what can you do with it? That’s the question many people have been asking for a while and we’re finally answering it today. Here’s the complete guide on how to use a dildo and make the most of it!

We’re sorry it took so long, but it’s finally here. So, enjoy!

1. Start With a Small Dildo

If you’re reading this, we’re going to assume you’re a beginner and this is your first dildo. So here’s the best tip for you: start small. When you’re browsing for dildos, your eyes will unavoidably go to the larger ones. They’re impressive and they look amazing, but when the time comes to use them, you may find they’re too uncomfortable for you. If this is your first time, start with a small dildo. To find the perfect dildo for you, use the number of fingers you can comfortably insert into your vagina as a guide.

This doublet set of dildos is not only affordable, but it’s also safe to use and it provides two different size options so you can upgrade when you’re ready.

2. Determine What Kind of Stimulation You Want

How you use your dildo will be determined by the kind of stimulation you want to enjoy. Your vagina and your anus are riddled with sensitive areas that may or may not make you feel amazing. We’re all different, so you must get to know yourself and determine the kind of stimulation you enjoy. Doing this will help you choose the right kind of dildo and also figure out how to use it.

3. Know the Different Types of Dildos

There are many types of dildos on the market. There’s the basic dildo, pictured below, which is the right starting point for beginners. Basic dildos will give you a good idea of what your options are in terms of pleasure and sensation without having an intense effect.

This is a great dildo for beginners! It’s flexible, soft, straight, and the girth is very manageable. Not to mention it’s glittery!

There are also G-spot dildos, which are specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot, hence its curvy shape with a bulbous end. G-spot dildos don’t only make it super easy for you to play with your G-spot, but they also allow you to explore your prostate if you’re interested in doing that. We recommend engaging in thrusting or rocking motions when you’re using this kind of dildo so you can truly enjoy your G-spot.

This G-spot dildo is pride-themed, so it’s not only visually beautiful, but it also gets the job done super well!

There are also textured dildos, which provide a ton of additional stimulation. Because they’re textured, they will also produce mild vibration as you move them in and out of your vagina. Textured dildos are great because they produce and provoke many different sensations at the same time, which increases your pleasure by a lot.

This textured dildo features big ridges for your pleasure and a suction cup for your comfort and safety.

Realistic dildos are another popular type of dildo and they often combine the best of G-spot dildos and textured dildos. Their realistic shape and style make for great fantasy play, which will allow you to explore your sexual imagination a lot better.

This realistic dildo is super soft and it comes in an incredible hot pink color that makes it that much more fun.

Suction cup dildos come in different styles and shapes, and what’s great about them is you can stick them to smooth surfaces so you can be more comfortable during your playtime. If you enjoy doing all the thrusting yourself, this can be the right kind of dildo for you.

This suction cup dildo has a super-strong base you can trust, it’s soft, and it will feel amazing.

Strap-on compatible dildos are the right option for you if you really enjoy playing with a strap-on. This type of dildo will feature a large, round base that will hold into the O-shaped ring of your strap-on harness. They can also work with a harness, which will make them a lot more versatile.

Dildos compatible with strap-on harnesses are a lot of fun and they’re available in many different shapes, styles, and colors.

Double dildos are also a lot of fun and they feature two sides, each offering a different shape or texture. This means you’ll have double fun and they’re great for people who want to have more than one option and like to mix things up.

This double dildo is gorgeous, made of glass, lightweight, and it will provide a real good time.

4. Know the Different Types of Dildo Materials

Many different materials are used in the making of dildos and they make a difference. Most commonly, dildos are made of silicone and it makes for a very versatile dildo. Your dildo can be firm or squishy, but either way, it will be easy to clean, durable, and safe for your body.

Glass is also a common material for dildos and it makes for durable, easy to clean, and safe dildos. Glass dildos will provide a more intense sensation and they allow for temperature play. You can put them in the fridge or soak them in warm water for a while, whatever you prefer, so you can enjoy a unique experience.

The least common material for dildos is specially treater wood, but it can be found. Wood dildos have an incredible aesthetic, they tend to be made by hand, they’re safe, and also easy to clean.

Last but not least, there are also metal dildos, which are heavy, body-safe, almost indestructible, and provide a truly intense experience. This type of dildo is not for everyone, but many people enjoy its weight and power. Not to mention it can also be used for temperature play.

5. Choose the Right Dildo for What You Want

Now that you know the different kinds of dildos and materials, you must carefully consider them so you can choose the right one for what you want. This is where it comes very important that you know what you like and what makes you feel pleasure. Dildos are incredible sex toys, available in different shapes and sizes, not to mention they’re very versatile. Keep your desires in mind and you’ll be able to find a dildo you’ll truly love.

6. Consider Your Body Shape and Physical Ability

When you’re choosing a dildo, you also need to consider your body shape and physical ability. Why? Because when you’re using dildos on your own, it will be a lot of work and some dildos will make movement difficult depending on the size and shape of your body.

The reach of your dildo will be limited by the size of your body, the length of your arm, your flexibility, or a combination of everything. So, you need to consider these factors so you can pick the dildo length that suits you the best.

If you have issues with your arms or wrists, curvy, ergonomic shapes will make things easier for you. You also must consider the weight of the dildo. If you have these issues, you want to avoid heavier dildos and go for lighter ones. To get a sense of what dildo could work best for you, do your research, read the specifications, and pay attention to customer reviews as well.

7. Always Warm Up First

Penetrative sex, whether vaginal or anal, alone or partnered, will be better, safer, and sexier if you always warm up first. When you’re aroused, your body is more relaxed and sensitive, which means everything will feel a lot more pleasant. If you’re playing with a partner, don’t neglect your foreplay.

If you’re doing it alone, then tease yourself and warm up your engines before you get started. As your arousal increases, your vagina will relax, open up, and begin to lubricate on its own. The same will happen to your anus, but don’t forget the lube! In fact, lubrication is always a great idea, no matter how wet you are.

8. Experiment Different Angles and Depths

The point of having a sex toy is to experiment and get to know your body a lot better. Dildos are the most versatile sex toy you can purchase, so take advantage of that and experiment by trying different angles and depths.

Dildos are not just for thrusting, you can try many different things and play with speed, angles, and depths. Playing with your dildo is about discovering what makes you feel good, and to do that, you must try different things. Get creative and enjoy yourself when you’re spending time with your dildo. Trust me, it’s worth it!

9. Use as Much Lube as You Can

Lubrication makes penetration not only easier but a lot more pleasurable. So, before you get to it, make sure you lube your dildo very well. If your toy is made of silicone, it might require more lube than other materials. If your toy is made of metal or glass, you might need a bit less lube. Either way, you want to apply as much as lube as you need so you can enjoy yourself more and avoid irritation. Make sure you choose a lube you like and it has to be safe and high-quality as well.

10. Put Your Sex Toys in Perspective

Virtually all sex toys, dildos included, are great for playing on your own or with someone else. You can make love to yourself or allow your partner to use your dildo to pleasure you. You can also have fun with strap-ons and harnesses. Just remember to keep your sex toys in perspective, particularly dildos. Most dildos resemble real penises, so it’s easy to grow too attached to them. Just remember they’re only a toy and you shouldn’t just play on your own all the time. Dildos should be a plus, they shouldn’t take over your sex life.

11. Make Your Dildo Your Own

Sex toys are great tools for fantasy play, especially dildos. We recommend you make your dildo your own. Even if it’s important to have a healthy relationship with your dildo, it’s also important to attach fantasy to it. Look at it as an extension of your body and an amazing tool for pleasure that only you can use.

The more you use your dildo, the more comfortable you’ll become with it and the more confident you’ll feel. This will allow you to explore your pleasure and your sexuality a lot more freely. Your dildo can teach you a lot about yourself, as long as you make it your own and have fun with it.

12. Dildo Techniques You Must Try

When you’re playing with a dildo, there are many different ways to have a ton of fun. For example, try thrusting downward! Even if your dildo is straight and basic, you can still try different angles. Thrust downward to get the base of your dildo near your clit, which will provide amazing stimulation.

You can also thrust upward so the tip of your dildo is pointed towards the front of your body if you’re lying on your back. If you do this, you’ll be thrusting against your G-spot, which will create orgasmic sensations. Now, not everyone has a sensitive G-spot, you don’t worry if it doesn’t feel like much. If that’s the case, try other techniques.

Another great thing you can try is twisting the dildo around while it’s inside your vagina. This will provide a ton of stimulation. Even more so if the dildo is textured! You can also double up and use another sex toy along with your dildo. For example, if you enjoy anal play, you can use an anal plug while you’re using the dildo. Or you could try a double dildo.

When it comes to using your dildo, you want to do whatever feels good. After all, playing with sex toys is all about pleasure. So, try different techniques to discover the full potential of your toy and your body. Be creative, experiment, and enjoy yourself!