Tabuu Wrap-up: Anyone with a butt can benefit from bringing a butt plug to the bedroom. Especially if you’re looking for fun ways to spice things up and explore your sexuality further!
I’m sure we can all agree on this: everyone’s got a butt. Independent of your gender or your sexual orientation, your butt is there. This is what brings me to the next point: butt plugs are the unsung heroes of the industry. Unless you have some kind of health issue, everyone can use bitt plugs in many different scenarios.
Butt plugs can even be discreetly used in public! Granted, depending on the one you have, you’ll have to adjust your level of activity to what they allow. Butt plugs are the true MVPs and they can enhance any kind of sexual experience, even the ones that aren’t focused solely on anal play.
Anyone with a butt (meaning EVERYONE), can benefit from bringing a butt plug to the bedroom. Especially people who want to spice things up, try something different and explore their sexuality further. To help you truly understand what butt plugs can do for you and your sex life, today we’re going to discuss some of the most fun ways you can use your butt plug during sex.
But before we get to the good stuff, remember anal play requires safety. That means you need to start things slow and use more lubricant than you think you need. Water-based lubricants are great for anal play, not just because they’re nice and thick, but also because they’re safe for silicone toys.
One of the most recommended lubes is the Sliquid H20, so give that a try. If it doesn’t work you, don’t hesitate to explore all your options. Finding the perfect lube is a matter of trial and error, so get yourself a variety pack and enjoy the process.
Another important aspect of anal play safety is you need to make sure your butt plug features a flared base. This will keep the toy from being sucked into your body, which can happen because anal muscles are seriously strong. No one wants to make that trip to the ER, so make sure the base is a good one!
1. Butt Plugs for Sexy Date Nights
Yes, that’s right! Go with me for a second. You can use butt plugs for sexy date nights in a couple of different ways. One, you can put it in as you’re preparing for the date. This will not only initiate the process of foreplay, but it will also prepare your butt for any anal action you may be getting after the date. Plus, it will make you feel super sexy!
If you want to take it up a notch, you can keep it in and wear it during your date. Let your partner know as you’re walking out the door, and you’ll have this dirty little secret between you all evening. You’ll not only enjoy the anticipation, but also the feeling of your butt plug shifting whenever you move. Not to mention, you’ll be sharing this sexy secret and you’ll be watching each other all night, increasing excitement.
Feeling even more adventurous? Why not use a vibrating butt plug that can be controlled with a remote and hand that to your partner? The We-Vibe Ditto is a great option for that and it’s an incredible way to extend your foreplay and to get your freak on in public without anyone noticing. When you get home, you’ll be more than ready to get started!
2. Oral Sex Featuring Your Butt Plug
It doesn’t matter if you’re on the giving or receiving end of oral sex, your experience can be taken up a few notches simply by integrating a butt plug. If you’re providing the oral sex, the butt plug will add to the number of sensations your partner will be experiencing. If you’re receiving it, the additional stimulation will add a whole other dimension to your experience of pleasure.
Using a butt plug during oral sex can be particularly powerful for people who have a hard time finding their orgasms. By increasing your sensation and doubling up, you will have a better chance of having an orgasm. Not to mention it can be more intense as well!
A great example of a butt plug you can use during oral sex is the b-Vibe Rimming Plug, which will provide the sensations of analingus when you rotate the beads. This will make you feel like another person is playing with your body at the same time, which makes it perfect for toy threesomes as well.
3. Butt Plugs and Sensation Play
Sensation play, whether that’s spanking, temperature play, electrostimulation, etc., will enhance your sexual experience. Combining sensation play with a butt plug is an entirely new dimension of sensation and pleasure. You will love it.
You won’t only be experiencing external sensations through whatever kind of sensation play you’re engaging with. But you’ll also experience internal sensations which can be intensified every time you’re spanked, etc. It’s definitely worth a try, so give it a shot and see if it’s for you! I’m sure it will make you happier than you think.
4. Butt Plugs and Vaginal Penetration
Combining vaginal penetration and butt plugs is a classic. In this situation, a butt plug can tighten things up further, which can allow stimulation to happen in other areas as well. For example, because everything’s tighter, there’s a higher chance the G-spot will be stimulated during penetration. Which is great news for people with sensitive G-spots! It can turn an okay sexual encounter into a mind-blowing one.
But butt plugs don’t only enhance the female experience. They also enhance the male experience during penetration. Why? Because they will stimulate your prostate every time you thrust. Some sex toys are designed specifically to work with the contractions of the body to provide hands-free stimulation to the prostate, while other toys will vibrate directly on the area, such as the LELO HUGO. Either way, the additional stimulation provided by a butt plug during vaginal penetration will be effortless and bring things to a whole new level.
5. They’re Great for Power Play
If you know you enjoy anal play and you’re into power play as well, bringing the two together can be a great move. If you’re interested in power play but have never done it and you know you like anal play, butt plugs can be a great way to give power play a try. If you’re interested in both but you’re new to it, even better.
All you need to do is negotiate with your partner and determine your limits and what you’re open to trying. Consent is very important, so male sure you’re on the same page about the kind of experience you want to have.
Power play with a butt plug means your partner will be in control of how the plug is used and they will provide you with instructions or commands. For example, your dominant may command you to wear the butt plug for a certain amount of time before they come home. In such a scenario, the butt plug will provide great sensations and you’ll enjoy the anticipation.
There you have it! Five different and super fun ways to integrate butt plugs into your sex life to spice things up and try something new. These are only a few of the best ways you can use butt plugs, but you can get as creative as you want as you become more comfortable with it. Just remember, safety first!
Choose a butt plug that’s perfect for your purposes and make sure it’s body-safe. Also, find a good lube you can trust and remember to relax and let go!
