Tabuu Wrap-up: For oral sex to be an amazing experience for both of you, there are a few simple rules you need to follow!

Oral sex is truly amazing. It’s a great form of foreplay, it’s a huge turn-on and it can be a preface to sex or the main act. Either way, you will have a lot of fun. Whether you’re giving it or receiving it, you’ll find the experience arousing and extremely intimate.

But if you want to unlock its full potential, you will benefit from following a few simple rules. After all, both people involved should have a ton of fun and feel extreme pleasure. If you want oral sex to become better than ever, here are a few do’s and don’ts to help guide your way!

DO Be Aware of Anatomy

If you want oral sex to be a real treat, you must understand your partner’s anatomy. When it comes to oral sex, your partner’s genitals become a map and you need to be able to navigate it successfully. If you understand the entire genital area, you will be able to provide more pleasure because you’ll be able to explore a lot more than just the clitoris or the shaft.

If you’re going down on a woman, you must pay attention to the clitoris, yes, but don’t forget there’s a lot more to play with. The inner and outer lips as well as the entrance of the vagina are also very sensitive areas that deserve attention. Suck and lick these areas and you’ll see how your partner responds with excitement. Don’t make the clitoris your first and only stop, have a little fun!

If you’re going down on a man, the underside of the penis’ head and bridge are extremely sensitive areas that deserve your attention. Give these areas some time and your partner will be begging for more. You also want to pay attention to the testicles! Many people ignore them during oral sex and that’s a mistake because fondling them, sucking them lightly or, licking them can shoot a bolt of electricity through his body.

There’s another area that’s a great source of pleasure for both men and women, and that’s the perineum. The perineum is the space between the anus and the vagina or scrotum and you can stimulate it with your mouth or your hands. Just remember this: half of the fun of having sex is being able to explore each other’s bodies. So, don’t be afraid to try new techniques or venture outside the familiar zones to surprise your partner every once in a while!

DON’T Neglect Your Technique

Great oral sex consists of more than just providing stimulation with your tongue. You should use your entire mouth! With the right technique, your lips, your teeth, and your entire tongue can cause many different sensations that will blow your partner’s mind. Alternating the way you use different parts of your mouth and creating different combinations will also make a bit difference. If you want to broaden your repertoire of techniques, we recommend Beducated! Their online courses on the topic of blowjobs and cunnilingus are truly worth your time.

DO Learn to Communicate With Each Other

One of the easiest things you can do to improve your oral sex experience is to communicate. We’re not saying you should interrupt your sexual activities to interview your partner about what they like or to ask for a review. However, it’s good to have a talk with your partner after you’re done so you can get a sense of what they liked the most and what you should avoid as well.

If you’re on the receiving end, you want to make sure your partner knows what you like and what you don’t like. If they’re missing the spot by miles, guide them in the right direction, give them instructions. If they care about your sexual pleasure, they will listen and adjust their technique to what you’re asking for. They’ll be happy to get your feedback. Remember no one can read minds, so the best thing you can do is speak up!

DON’T Forget About Extras

One of the easiest ways to spice things up during oral sex is to practice different methods. You shouldn’t stick to a single area during oral sex, especially not if your partner is up for it! As an extra, you can mix in a little bit of analingus or penetration with your fingers or a sex toy to provide additional stimulation. This is a great way not only to give your mouth a little break but also to surprise your partner. In short, you must be creative! Don’t limit yourself. Instead, have fun and see how far things can go.

DO Keep Everything Nice and Clean

Last but not least, you want your genitals to be nice and clean before you get down to it. This is particularly important if you’re trying oral sex for the first time as a couple. By keeping the area clean and inviting, you remove a lot of the awkwardness. On the one hand, you won’t be worrying about your situation down there, so you’ll be much more confident. And on the other hand, your partner will feel a lot less intimidated.

So, as preparation for oral sex make sure you clean your folds very well and trim or wax your pubes. Of course, keep in mind that genitals won’t ever smell or taste like a deliciously fresh baked good. And they shouldn’t if they’re healthy. At the end of the day vaginas and penises will smell and taste as what they are and there’s nothing wrong with that. All you can do is make sure your genitals are well-kept!

The bottom-line today is that oral sex will be amazing as long as you can communicate openly with each other, you’re open to explore each other’s bodies, and are able to have fun with the experience. That’s all it takes!